Everyone looks at you, waiting for you to speak, with TOTAL SILENCE from the ground.
How many people get to experience that in a lifetime?
Dozens time for me. YOU?
One thing I learnt since very young, to get that kind of effect, is when you speak, you must be impactful. And people know you mean what you say. And will follow through by actions.
That also means, that you don’t say what you don’t mean. You don’t bullshit. You don’t blow “ta pao”. You don’t push away responsibility and you don’t twist and turn words to suit your way. All these, will work for you once or twice. BUT you are never going to get that kind of respect that you think you want. Reason being, people looks at your actions, to see if it matches your word.
RESPECT IS TO BE EARNED, NOT DEMANDED.
I was quite a trouble-maker for both teachers and students or authority, even as young as Primary 5 or as old as in university. I got my way, through proper means, through back door, through direct collision, through pain, through tears. Eventually, I will get what I want.
Remembered once having lunch with some of our lafamille, we were talking about woman being at disadvantage because in physical strength, women lose out. In loudness of voice, women lose out. Emotionally, when women cry, and men sayang a little, whatever the men say goes. So basically women are weaker. I do agree. Cos it’s true. J
BUT
You heard of “ying xiong nan guo mei ren guang” & “zui du fu ren xin”?
Never play play with women who are vicious. You never know how you die. Some women can cry at the slightest thing, looking so vulnerable, but behind the tears, light bulbs are sprouting. Can you see that green light?
Don’t play with the devil if you don’t know how Hell is like.
Whoa ... Can tell from the first moment i met you after your transition last year in P.S. that you've changed a lot , young Lady .
ReplyDeletePreviously , you were just a mature little lady looking for directions .
Now it's nice to see you're a Seasoned young lady seeking to dish out those same Directions .
ONE thing remains .. your NO NONSENSE , Devil may care attitude .It's these two quirks in your character that i admire the most .^^
Stay your course and let nothing stand in your way , remember , History remembers the Victorious ... the " Da Pao "s and "people who Bullshit ? ... well Here's a saying that you may want to pass onto your recruits when you're ready to step up to management .
" you can fool some of the people some of the time , you can fool some even , ALL of the time , you can EVEN fool ALL of the people some of the time , BUT you can't fool ALL of the people ALL of the time ."
"Da Pao" blow too long already will Blow up right ?
usually in the blower's face too right ?
haha.. think i met you at PS this year wor, not last year.. you were with Wing and Alan.. :) Time flies right?
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